Monday, September 21, 2009

Seconf MSF Date

...and the next one seems pretty decent...

The picture was really cute...really amazing blue eyes...I nearly saw the babies with the same coloured eyes (but then I realised this wasn't even my dream as I am not really willing to have children...too selfish..but this is another story)...So I send him the awkward, break the ice, message through the site.

Hate it...how do you bloody catch the attention of someone through an email...of course he is going to check your pictures first....cause at the end of the day, who really cares what my friend has wrote about me...the look is essential (same is for me anyway! Don't even bother reading about the person...just checking the pictures. At the end of the day this is what makes you go and talk to the cute guy in a club. Surely nothing else!)

So one of my pictures is nearly showing my boobs...just to make sure men are looking...(told you...shopping window!)

Anyway loosing the plot here....Sent the first message...and the tricky game is that...you can see if and when the person has read your message...so no reply for few days...Already lost hopes...Too true to be true...

But then...the unpredictable...he replyed...back on the 6th September...I was soooo happy...like a child on Christmas day...

So we started exchanging flirty emails...I simply loved it...Fantasizing about the first time I was going to meet him...while exchanging sexy texts was real fun...and I got excited about meeting this guy...

He was really nice, texting me on my way back from Dublin (gosh how many sexy Irish guys...but again this is another story...)...that Thursday seems ageeeees away...

In the meantime we planned where to go...Westfield shopping center...seems strange but I found it funny and he did not say no...meeting point...I was starting getting nervous and excited at the same time....

He even took the day off...so when Thursday finally arrived...I had to postponed our meeting due to work commitments...but I never worked so hard in a single day...believe me!

Before heading off...needed to calm down...so dragged Camilla to the local for a quick glass of red...and she was nearly as nervous as I was...bless her :)

So here I am...like a girl who kiss a guy for the first time...I arrived to meeting point...too many people...never EVER meet someone in front of a theatre on a Thursday night. But it was a good excuse for him to come and find me...cause I am always nervous of not being able to recognise the person....

And here we were..standing in front of each other....mmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Not too tall....girly hands...but amazing face...until he smiled. Now I am not generally that fussy...but teeth are one of the first things I look at....but then I thought..."give him the bloke a chance"...so we took the tube and head to the West...

Chatting away until he started asking about the dating site....how many dates I have been on...now I know we met through a dating site...but can we not forget about it for a second? Felt under police interrogation....So tried to be nice, made him feel like he was the only one who caught my eyes (not entirely true but nearly as he was the only who asked me out!)...

And go for another drink...but got some water as well to show that....nooooo I don't really drink much!

Not sure what's happened in between that drink and dinner...but we walked around the shopping mall, chatted away, I actually had fun....and of course I was doing most of the talking...but that just normal...

Then was dinner....nice meat restaurant (to prove that I EAT...and I eat MEAT!)...cosy table...nice wine....but felt sooooo tired...not bored...just exhausted....

Try to condensate your life and experience in 4 hours...for me...simply impossible!

By the end of it...knowing the day after would have been another night out...I called it a night...

But shockingly...he did not even try to kiss me! Now a man who doesn't want to kiss me??? SHOCKING! How dare him!

Anyway played cool...kiss on the check when he got to get to his train…..

I did not realised how pissed I was till the time when I reached home…and started talking in French with my housemates….Just hilarious….nearly forgot I had to text the guy to let him know that I went through Brixton safely1 (Hate that! I’ve been living by myself since I was 19….so few recently :)…moved to London by myself and been living in Brixton for 3 years…so YES I CAN look after myself!)

Anyway he texted me back saying he had a nice time as well….

Then nothing on Friday…not that I was expecting it anyway…but it would have been nice….

Nothing on Saturday…but I was too out of it to even bother thinking about it…

So I texted him on Sunday…knowing already the kind of reply he would have eventually send back…WHY BOTHER considering I did not really fancy him?

Why are women always getting so attached to the first guy who is willing to buy them drinks? Or is it just me???

Anyway…I received the driest text I ever had from a guy….

So I deleted his number….

Next one please….

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